Pregnant after 4 months dating
Everything happens for a reason and things will work out. I can only hope my boyfriend reacts as good as yours did! attentive and caring but I guess I'm just afraid that this news will instantly end the "honeymoon phase" and bring out a side of him I didn't think existed.And remember (this is what keeps me going) if it doesn't work out, you are still going to be ok and it's still going to work out for you! you have so much courage :)) Im sorry that you guys had to go through so much but I'm also glad that you have such a happy ending. Im praying that he embraces this news with maturity and although I expect him to be afraid I just hope he doesn't run away.When I told him he was shocked but excited and told me he wanted to raise the baby together and I moved in with him.He proposed to me on my first mothers day after our daughter was born. when i found out i was pregnant, we had been dating for about a month, and i had just signed a one year lease on a new apartment.I'm pretty sure when I told him, I said "We have a problem." We wound up deciding to terminate, but I had a lot of problems with that after the fact.
Unfortunately women become parents the day we find out we are pregnant, men become parents when they hold their son/daughter.
It was very difficult for both of us as we lived an hour apart and neither of us were ready for a kid.
Hell, we weren't even sure about each other at the time.
I say let him know and let him go if he needs time.
If you are both mature enough then it's definatley do-able.